Drama Drama

My mother successfully made it back from Ft. Lauderdale last night. Her flight was delayed by an hour and a half leaving the Sunshine state but that's not bad considering the weather conditions there. Anywho, as I already knew, she, like my father will not do anything about the Debbie situation. Basically my sister is a 40 something spoiled brat who lives at home and does nothing but try to live it up P. Diddy style while contributing nothing to the house (my mother's house). Yet Debbie acts like it's her house that she bought. My mother tells her not to bring people in, she does it anyway. She tells her she needs to help with a bill, she refuses. What she does do it book expensive weekend trips, fails to pay her bills, and carries on like an asshole when she's told no. The conversation on the way home from the airport was as expected. My mother makes up excuses for her. My father's attitude is "well I don't live there so what can I do" kind of thing (they are divorced). So, that leaves me to just stay away from the house and all of them since it's very hurtful to me that they don't want to deal with it. Their decision is to just let Debbie continue with her nonsense. What they don't seem to care about is that it's at my expense. Since I'm the "responsible" one, all of the burden is put on to me. If my parents need something, they are inclined to ask me since Debbie isn't dependable. I tell my parents all the time, if something happens to either one of them, make sure their paperwork is up to date and very clear. In my father's case, he's so lazy he doesn't have any. Big mistake since Debbie feels entitled to everything. What's mine is hers and what's hers is hers mentality. Materialistically speaking, I don't want anything from any of them. I have told my parents many times to make sure to leave that house to Debbie because I'm not going to waste time in court fighting over it. Right now my mother keeps saying the house will be left to the two of us. I really don't want that since I know my sister can't be satisfied with that. Considering I helped pay off the mortgage and grew up there you would think my sister would be able to share. She moved back there ten years ago and has lived rent free all that time. She also does not pay any utilities, doesn't do her laundry (thanks mom), and when she misses her insurance payments, she uses my mother's car to get everywhere. Did I mention that Debbie earns more money than my mother and my salary combined? I can't let them stress me. I better go to work. Got in after 10p so will definitely try to recap what happened to put all of this into perspective.